Fostering the Ability to Think and Adapt to Change

I have three children, aged 17, 14, and 11.
My wife and I share an educational philosophy: “Foster the ability to think for yourself and adapt to change.
” Of course, if our children choose a different path, we will respect their decisions, but we don’t believe that there is only one right way

Considering the declining birthrate and the economic challenges ahead, we feel that the traditional path of “good university → job at a large company” no longer fits the future

Generational Differences in Thinking

My father, on the other hand, believes that “in uncertain times, it’s important to go to a good university and secure a stable job.
” At 72 years old, my father has had a successful career, so it’s understandable that changing his mindset is difficult. However, I believe that as times change, clinging to old models without adapting will lead to struggles.

Many people around me still share this traditional mindset, and I notice that even young people in their twenties often feel that way.
Social media and the internet, where algorithms tend to group like-minded individuals, can reinforce these differences in perspective.

The Importance of Independent Thinking

The idea of “good university → large company job” is still common sense for many, and there’s nothing inherently wrong with that.
I don’t criticize the academic system excessively, and I do believe that students should strive to achieve their best.

However, just as important—if not more so—is the ability to think independently and adapt to changes in the world.
It’s not only about focusing on studies; experiences like love and friendships are equally valuable and contribute to personal growth. Ultimately, I believe that having the autonomy to choose one’s own path is what truly opens the doors to the future.